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Originally Posted by BENT_8
Yes, weve been together since she was 14 and i 15, some 25yrs this December, she knows me all too well and in there lies the problem, one melt down too many.
She's supported me through a lot but eventually even the strongest people wear down.
Now that i've calmed down, well as calm as a person in my current predicament can be, i'd love to sit down with that driver and let them see the result of their 5 minutes of playing cunstable traffic cop.
Not that i'd put a finger on her, just so she can see how something so trivial can have such a devastating effect on an unstable mind and the ripple effect on those around that fragile mind.
Alas they will never be, but my babies have lost their mother and that is a tragedy.
I believe in Karma though, so...
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sorry i typed what i wanted to say to you in stefan's post prior to this, but wanted to add a ' YES ' to letting ignorance know of how trivial matters are NOT so trivial to an ill mind and to hold contempt or judgement towards what seems like just a D#@khead going off, instead try to underdtand the what, and allow a bit of space and time for such an incident to be rectified by the Over reactor, which does come in time with the right meds to help us get there and help from those who can, unfortunately my 'now' exwife, 20yo son, 30yo step daughters, 60yo sisters and long time family GP could not, but many a stranger have thankfully
keep up the good one