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Old 11-11-2005, 09:18 AM   #1
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Post Paranoia going too far!

I just got this email from a friend of mine. I won't disclose his name, however, he is the writer of this email not just someone who clicked forward. Just thought I'd post it up to see what people's reactions are.


Here is an example of how idiotic the world has become.

I work at a local primary school. One morning this week at 7:45, I parked my car outside the school, & was listening to the radio news prior to starting work. I happened to have a digital camera beside me on the front seat of the car, as I needed to photograph some equipment later on.

Apparently I look like a pervert, as a passer-by was so alarmed by my unsavoury character that she took my car registration number & called the police to alert them to my presence, believing that I was furtively lurking there to take clandestine pictures of children.

A uniformed police officer went to my home that morning (I wasn’t home) & I was contacted by a CIB officer at 8 o’clock that night. The officer I spoke to had by then done a background check & discovered that I was employed by the school, but was obliged to follow the matter through, to ensure that I had a valid reason to have a camera in my car.

I am astounded that two police officers should have to waste their time investigating such a frivolous & malicious complaint, & I am angered that I should be the target of a police investigation for the perpetration two perfectly legal acts: sitting in my parked car & owning a camera.

This sort of paranoia is becoming rampant, & is the height of stupidity. It is just plain wrong that a person with an overactive imagination can force me to have to justify my actions to the police.

May I respectfully suggest that the busybodies in this country wake up & get some perspective.





Now, that was the email I received. I would happily say under oath that this man is not a pedofile or any form of pervert. He has been married 25 years and is a loving father. I understand the need to keep our children safe and to protect them, but is there really a need to investigate this far into it? Surely, all they need to do is a quick background check, find he's an employee of the school and dismiss it. Do they need to go to his house to question him?

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That's terrible mate.
You only need to take a brief look around to see things going on that really make no sence. I too rekon that many things are being blown out of proportion. A stupid thing for the police to investigate (unles there was a major reason like there was a macine gun there too, but there wasn'), but more to the point, what a stupid thing to ring the cops about... Shows how parthetic the world is getting...
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Old 11-11-2005, 09:46 AM   #3
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I don't mind so much if someone see a middle aged man sitting in a car with a camera and gets concerned. However, surely, when the cops find taht he is an employee, need the investigation go further? Why can't a primary school student have a camera at school? Don't teachers regularly take photos of children? Don't the employess need blue cards? Thus, they have had background checks?
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True that...
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Old 11-11-2005, 09:49 AM   #5
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I have 4 kids under the age of 9 years old. I think what happened was PERFECTLY JUSTIFIABLE and I would have done the same. He had nothing to hide and nothing came from it.

Look at it the other way... what if someone WAS a pedofile and no one did or questioned anything.. then a child was abducted, raped and murdered? How do you think the public would react to that?

If I see a person put a bag down and walk away for more than 20 foot and 30 seconds.. I've going to raise the alarm. It may be innocent but do you want to risk it? If its nothing it will be just that, nothing. If it IS something.. then I have done the right thing. Same applies to pedofiles, murderers and the likes.
If it were me in the car getting questioned I'd be more than happy to cooperate cause I have nothing to hide.. and I'd be pleased to do so knowing next time it might be someone else and one of my kids was at risk.

Yes, its a paranoid world... but there is bloody good reason to be so in a lot of respects.
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Old 11-11-2005, 09:55 AM   #6
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Yeah, I don't mind that it was investigated. And I can see the reasons why it was. However, surely a simple phonecall to the school would sort it out. I think I'm more annoyed at the waste of Police time and resources. As one of my coleagues mentioned, just call the school and ask if he had a right to have a camera there. Need that go further?
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Yeah, I don't mind that it was investigated. And I can see the reasons why it was. However, surely a simple phonecall to the school would sort it out. I think I'm more annoyed at the waste of Police time and resources. As one of my coleagues mentioned, just call the school and ask if he had a right to have a camera there. Need that go further?
I just dont see it as a waste of resource at all... in fact I see it as doing what they should be doing rather than stuffing around with minor garbage. If you want a story of police wasteing resources on nothing I got a great one.. but that getting OT.
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Although waity, what is to say that a teacher can't be a pedofile? One of my best mates at school was raped by a teacher!
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Old 11-11-2005, 10:17 AM   #9
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Yeah, im gunna go with "the police were doing there job". Maryborough police waste most of their time lapping in that bloody hsv, so i'm not going to complain when they do something that might save one of my children from death or worse. Plus, just knowing that a little incident like this is investigated so much, will hopefully make pedofile's less likely to attempt doing similar.
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Old 11-11-2005, 10:17 AM   #10
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Reminds me of a little episode where a grandfather was driving his grandchild to school and the child pointed out a school mate to which he pulled over and asked if the child wanted a lift. The child panicked and took off to the school and raised an alarm that she (in this case) was being abducted.

They (the police) launched a full scale hunt for the man, including dog units, helicopters, you name it. All because a grandfather FFS offered a child's schoolmate a lift to school.

Totally blown out of proportion. How much would it have cost to launch a search like that, over a false alarm?

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Its a bit rought but frankly i think its comforting to know that such a matter is not taken lightly.

I'm sure it wasnt nice mate. But, if 99 innocent guys like yourself have their noses put out of joint in order to catch 1 person whose intentions are not pleasant - its worth it IMO.
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How thankfull would they be if the grandfather was abducting the child. I think anything of this nature is a case for "better safe than sorry"
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Yeah, I spose it wasn't to harsh. And Will, you are right about the cops lapping in that bloody SS crumpldoore. And Kenny, that is going a bit far that one. Surely the kid could have at some stage told someone that the "filthy old man" was their friend's granpappy.
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If a person was in the car actually taking pictures of young kids with the other hand elsewhere, then I'd be in full agreement regarding the action taken. Otherwise it's a bit excessive
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If a person was in the car actually taking pictures of young kids with the other hand elsewhere, then I'd be in full agreement regarding the action taken. Otherwise it's a bit excessive
Agreed, now that I think about it more, the camera was in a case on the seat. Is that cause for suspision? He wasn't taking photos. He had a camera in the car, switched off, in a case, no in his grasp. He was sitting for less than 10 minutes, an hour before school starts. The more I think about it, the more rediculous I think it is. O well, I'm over it I guess.
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...that is going a bit far that one. Surely the kid could have at some stage told someone that the "filthy old man" was their friend's granpappy.
It happened locally, about two weeks ago I think.

I agree on it being ridiculous, and when Will said "Better safe than sorry", I agree in some aspect there, but to launch a search on that scale is plain stupidity.
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yeah that may have been ott, that scale investigation would be what I expect after the child is reported missing. That said, stats say, the first 8 hours are the difference between saving the childs life, the first 12 are the difference between finding the child again. ever. Sure having the camera in the case may look innocent, but its not like pedofiles have a flashing sign on their head. they look just like everyone else. Also, the passer-by has no way of knowing how long he had been sitting there. it may have been 10 minutes, but it could have been hours, he could have taken photo's then put the camera away
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I may be a bit vocal on this topic, but im sick of listening to poeple whining about interuptions to their precious time, then being appaled when something horible happens and nothing was done to prevent it.
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Complete and utter waste of resources.
The quick check at the cop shop was more than enough.

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I have 4 kids under the age of 9 years old. I think what happened was PERFECTLY JUSTIFIABLE and I would have done the same. He had nothing to hide and nothing came from it.

Look at it the other way... what if someone WAS a pedofile and no one did or questioned anything.. then a child was abducted, raped and murdered? How do you think the public would react to that?

If I see a person put a bag down and walk away for more than 20 foot and 30 seconds.. I've going to raise the alarm. It may be innocent but do you want to risk it? If its nothing it will be just that, nothing. If it IS something.. then I have done the right thing. Same applies to pedofiles, murderers and the likes.
If it were me in the car getting questioned I'd be more than happy to cooperate cause I have nothing to hide.. and I'd be pleased to do so knowing next time it might be someone else and one of my kids was at risk.

Yes, its a paranoid world... but there is bloody good reason to be so in a lot of respects.
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I may be a bit vocal on this topic, but im sick of listening to poeple whining about interuptions to their precious time, then being appaled when something horible happens and nothing was done to prevent it.
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No, this is an example of how sad and dangerous the world has become
Not really an example of how sad and dangerous the world has become... Watched a show on SBS several weeks ago, investigating the proliferation of child abuse/abduction/paedophilia... According to the statistics, 25 years ago(when I was at primary school) the incidence of these crimes was actually marginally greater. The only difference now is that it's no longer a dirty secret which families hide but nationally reported in the interest of making a difference. The report actually found that todays climate is somewhat safer due to parents/passers by being more aware and willing to speak out.

I say bravo to the individual who raised the alarm, I have young children and am open to a whole world of interuption and lost time if the reason is a genuine concern for the safety of my kids or anyone elses... As for the cops, well maybe a little ott but imagine the backlash if they just said "OK, that seems to add up" and then a kid gets hurt or worse...

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I think it is good that it happened. Yes a waste of time in this case but maybe by doing this they save some young boy or girls life and stop them and a family going through intense agony in more ways than one.

I think a better idea overall would be security cameras around schools imo. Much cheaper than using poice vehicles and time only a few times a year.

It is mainly sad that the world has lowlifes in it that we need to watch out for this but we do. Young people are beautiful and cute but it is a different way than adults and its a real shame that some men are too pathetic to be able to differenciate.

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I don't see the problem with this situation at all. I am glad to see that these calls are being taken seriously. Really what harm was done? sure the guy was followed up on and the police visited, but he was innocent and such had nothing to worry about. I don't have kids but if I did I would be glad that someone had the balls to ring it in and not turn a blind eye. 'Cause murphy's law will have it that the time somebody see's something suss and doesn't report it will be the time something bad happens.

I don't think its paranoia I think it is just that people are a lot more aware that these people are out there and nobody wants anything to happen to a young innocent child.

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Seems awfully strange it took the police 12 hours to make contact with him.
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It is mainly sad that the world has lowlifes in it that we need to watch out for this but we do. Young people are beautiful and cute but it is a different way than adults and its a real shame that some men are too pathetic to be able to differenciate.

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Just thought I should point out, its not just men, it's also other kids, older kids, and women.
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I think thats fair enough that the matter was looked into and he should respect the fact that they're not accusing him, but they are just making sure that the kids are safe and doing their job. If hes not doing anything wrong, he shouldn't worry about it.
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As previously stated by sum1 else, I dont have much spare time (we do 24x7 support), but if the cops ring me regarding something like this, I will drop whatever im doing, go see them, help them as much as I can, since I have nothing to hide. Then get back to my job. my comment about people's precious time was of course, sarcastic, no-ones time is worth a life
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