Neighbour In Penthouse Magazine. - Page 3

GRNKPR · 06-12-2005, 04:59 PM

Grow up, get on with your life, and show some god damn respect.[/QUOTE]

she did the photos and she should of thought of that when she was cahing the cheque and also if she didnt want it public knowledge WHY POSE?????
pull your head out your backside and take a chill pill

Penelope Pitstop · 06-12-2005, 05:11 PM

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Originally Posted by gtfpv

so your telling me if you saw a friend at work in a magazine that was left on a table and you just happened to see it you wouldn't be inspired to tell someone else . like your partner or a confidant to confirm if it really is them or not . that would be right you wouyld blame the person for seeing it not the person in the mag .

Ok so your right If it was me and for some reason there was a porn magazine in the lunch room at my work (Which I am pretty sure is a clear breach of any workplaces regulations and would never happen) and for some reason I decided to have a flick and I chanced upon someone I knew I may or may not have confirmed it with my partner, I certainly wouldn’t have shown it to anyone else. NO way would I have showed it to people that the person knew well, people that would see this person everyday within the confines of their neighbourhood.

Why couldn’t you just let it go? Why was it so important to you to have it clarified? Why was you selfish need for confirmation more important then your friendship and respect for this woman? If she had not been naked would you have cared?

I do not judge others for the decisions they make and I will not blame this woman for posing for a men’s magazine – I am sure she had her reasons. I do however feel compelled to alert you to the fact that your actions in this scenario make you look like a jerk which is disappointing because I assumed you were a gentleman.

rodderz · 06-12-2005, 05:17 PM

Ok we've all had a say in it, and gtfpv has stated it's all back to a normal neighbourhood again

Let's just leave it at that

gtfpv · 06-12-2005, 05:22 PM

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Originally Posted by PirtekGirl76

Ok so your right If it was me and for some reason there was a porn magazine in the lunch room at my work (Which I am pretty sure is a clear breach of any workplaces regulations and would never happen) and for some reason I decided to have a flick and I chanced upon someone I knew I may or may not have confirmed it with my partner, I certainly wouldn’t have shown it to anyone else. NO way would I have showed it to people that the person knew well, people that would see this person everyday within the confines of their neighbourhood.

Why couldn’t you just let it go? Why was it so important to you to have it clarified? Why was you selfish need for confirmation more important then your friendship and respect for this woman? If she had not been naked would you have cared?

I do not judge others for the decisions they make and I will not blame this woman for posing for a men’s magazine – I am sure she had her reasons. I do however feel compelled to alert you to the fact that your actions in this scenario make you look like a jerk which is disappointing because I assumed you were a gentleman.

your condemming me because i told someone a secret . ( not really ) . the person i told is a reformed heroin addict who is running a respectable company business. one of the best people i have met . has a past and doesn't judge anybody . nor do i . do you hate everyone that tells you a secret ? 2ndly if it is for an opinion do you abuse them for it . if so you must be a lonely person.i could've ran to another nieghbour and showed them . which i chose not too because the whole street wouldve found out . i made it clear to the person i told not to tell anyone . he asked if he could seek his wifes opinion as she has experianced more problems in life than a mere porn pic . so i agreed . her reply was it is not her . so thier it lies . its over .even if it was it would still be over . so what is your problem .i sould've ignored the pic alltogether and pretend i didn't see it .but i didn't so maybe me and everyone who has evr told a secret are not worthy of friendship from people like you . and i trust you dont buy any womans magazines ( like new idea or womans day ) because then you would be paying for gossip and lies .

HOON69 · 06-12-2005, 05:46 PM

DING DING!
RD1
FIGHT...

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PirtekGirl76 take a chill pill, and as stated its over with ppl's nothing to see here..

**Charliewool** · 06-12-2005, 11:52 PM

Ummmm, IF she WAS clothed & in say, new idea or womans day, would there have been all this cloak & dagger detective stuff?... Not taking sides here, but from my 1st read of this, I thought it a little like "schoolboyish" stuff!

Penelope Pitstop · 07-12-2005, 12:17 AM

Why am I the one that needs to take a chill pill? Why am I not allowed to question this bizarre excuse for a post? Why are there no teapots appearing in this thread?

So many questions????

The simple fact Frank is this – it was not your secret to tell. You didn’t think about her or her feelings at all… your only concern was for yourself and that you required answers. That is all I am pointing out, think about it from the other side of the fence.

That is it, my last word on the subject. So can we talk about cars now or what??

MITCHAY · 07-12-2005, 12:45 AM

To be honest I can't see how it could be called a secret when the magazine is available to any legal age person of the public.

07-12-2005, 12:54 AM

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Originally Posted by MITCHAY

To be honest I can't see how it could be called a secret when the magazine is available to any legal age person of the public.

the black label penthouses are available only be discreet mail order. Alas, no joe off the street can buy it at a shop, you have to be subscribed to the service.

MITCHAY · 07-12-2005, 12:57 AM

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Originally Posted by woodstock_rocks

the black label penthouses are available only be discreet mail order. Alas, no joe off the street can buy it at a shop, you have to be subscribed to the service.

Well I didn't know that but assumingly its still unrestricted on who can subscribe if you're of legal age.

Blue Oval Mopar Man · 07-12-2005, 01:31 AM

One of my EX Girlfreinds posed naked for a well known publication a few years back , just before I met her, and I asked her if she were in the same situation what would she do ? ( We are still good friends ) She said she would be only too happy to sign it for someone if they asked her and were polite about it ! She is very married these days with a little one . She is who she is , and enjoyed her life so far ! Why hide what she has done ? It wasnt illegal or anything .

Of course , Not everyone is the same , so descretion would be advised .

LTDHO · 07-12-2005, 07:50 AM

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Originally Posted by PirtekGirl76

I think you are sick and twisted and in all honesty you need to get a life, the simple fact that you have now showed two people in the neighbourhood and discussed this matter behind her back with both them and AFF is pathetic. And the fact that you got a great laugh out of it is even more pathetic. You really should be ashamed of yourself.

Grow up, get on with your life, and show some god damn respect.

Tori, don't you think you are being a bit harsh?

Any person knows that an action like posing in a magazine will pretty much last forever, so the woman here would have known that these pictures will always be around and she accepted this.
Also not all men are gentlemen and these magazines get around, regardless on whether it is an elite magazine or not.
I am not familiar with the Penthouse black label but I assume the pictures a classy and this is the respect each woman pictured deserves.

JPFS1 · 07-12-2005, 08:18 AM

Sounds like PirtekGirl is being overly defensive for poor old neighbour... WHY????

Said women posed at her own will and would have been paid nicely for it and most likely enjoyed every minute of the shoot. Most women that do this are totally proud and feel a sense of empowerment (i'm not referring to hardcore here).

Get over it i say, she made the decision, too bad if she lives to regret it. She sold herself off to the public, therefore she's scrutinised by the public.

I see nothing unusual or really wrong with what gtfpv has posted.

Better with PICS though.....

KEV EB XR8 · 07-12-2005, 08:20 AM

Yeah and give us older fellas a break, beautiful young women sharing their beauty in mag privacy is good,

Beats the hail damage , road maps and wrinkles. hee hee...........

JPFS1 · 07-12-2005, 08:26 AM

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Originally Posted by PirtekGirl76

What makes you think that 5 years later after using the alias of Belle that she would flinch because you mention you are looking at installing a door bell – WTF? You are in a bizarre dream world if you think she would possibly connect the two.

I think you are sick and twisted and in all honesty you need to get a life, the simple fact that you have now showed two people in the neighbourhood and discussed this matter behind her back with both them and AFF is pathetic. And the fact that you got a great laugh out of it is even more pathetic. You really should be ashamed of yourself.

Grow up, get on with your life, and show some god damn respect.

I can't believe the personal insults you are throwing around over something so pety.

Are you feeling ok??? It's like you have some issues here?

I think a breather would be a good idea, then re-read the topic starters posts, bit of innocent curiousity is all it is and doesn't justify such harsh critisism.

boss-290 · 07-12-2005, 08:49 AM

PICTURES PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!! :nutsycuck

4.9 EF Futura · 07-12-2005, 09:43 AM

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Originally Posted by PirtekGirl76

Why am I the one that needs to take a chill pill? Why am I not allowed to question this bizarre excuse for a post? Why are there no teapots appearing in this thread?

So many questions????

The simple fact Frank is this – it was not your secret to tell. You didn’t think about her or her feelings at all… your only concern was for yourself and that you required answers. That is all I am pointing out, think about it from the other side of the fence.

That is it, my last word on the subject. So can we talk about cars now or what??

It's incredibly rude to demand the last word on a subject and tends to suggest you dont have the courtesy to clarify your position. There must be tens of thousands of automotive related threads on AFF - you cant throw your hat in the ring in this thread and then question why we're talking about off topic stuff. But moving on....

In all honesty this has been a fairly light hearted topic, perhaps your response was somewhat of an overreaction? I think your perspective is understandable but there's certainly no need for the personal criticism/insults.

The person's decision to appear in a magazine is their own. You have to realise something that goes to print will be forever in existence and you cant be sure how people will react. Not tomorrow, next year or ten years down the line. You cant pose nude in a publication and then crack the sh**s at people for their reaction.

Yeah, the discussions probably been a little immature but WGAF? Just a bit of light hearted fun. No one's been hurt. Dont take life so seriously!

gozza · 07-12-2005, 10:20 AM

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Originally Posted by XRated

LOL your wife is a classic!! Sounds so familiar.

Do all women hate porn?

mine doesn't hehee

Quasi · 07-12-2005, 11:38 AM

At a party or gathering simply stand with her, for a chat. Casually state "Y'know, one of the guys at work came up with something really interesting in this old magazine the other day.....", give her a quick sideways glance (or look straight at her and smile), then suddenly notice someone else (or the dog doing it's business, or whatever), and walk away.

If it was her she will know you know. After that just wait and see if she raises the subject, or begins to act differently (or avoid you all together).

Keep in mind though that this may be a subject she finds distressing. Simply because she did the photo-shoot then, doesn't mean she is the same person now.....

.....and for God's sake, don't start acting like a jerk-off around her......like smiling over the back fence every 5 minutes, and crap.

If you are wrong (and it's only wishful thinking), you'll end up having hubby over to sort you out, thinking you're hitting on his missus.

gtfpv · 30-06-2006, 10:43 PM

update " my wife found the said mag " it is now ripped up and has been placed in the bin " .

30-06-2006, 11:00 PM

sorry did not read all the post, just skipped to the end to find out what happened....

Bummer what month was this? and sorry was it her?

GRNKPR · 30-06-2006, 11:00 PM

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Originally Posted by gtfpv

update " my wife found the said mag " it is now ripped up and has been placed in the bin " .

so she didnt like it why ?????????????????????????????????????????????

gtfpv · 30-06-2006, 11:11 PM

she said it wasnt her . she didnt like it either .

**Falcon Coupe** · 30-06-2006, 11:19 PM

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Originally Posted by gtfpv

update " my wife found the said mag " it is now ripped up and has been placed in the bin " .

My wife did the same thing when she saw my ex girl friend in a pumped up down under calander a few years ago.

gtfpv · 30-06-2006, 11:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Falcon Coupe

My wife did the same thing when she saw my ex girl friend in a pumped up down under calander a few years ago.

my wife would cut 3 thumbs off in this case.

gtfpv · 30-06-2006, 11:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Falcon Coupe

My wife did the same thing when she saw my ex girl friend in a pumped up down under calander a few years ago.

now i know why you race fully worked xa's down the drags. hence your avatar. :Reverend:

**Falcon Coupe** · 30-06-2006, 11:37 PM

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Originally Posted by gtfpv

now i know why you race fully worked xa's down the drags. hence your avatar. :Reverend:

You lost me on that one ?

gtfpv · 30-06-2006, 11:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Falcon Coupe

You lost me on that one ?

a hobbie . thats all .

**Falcon Coupe** · 30-06-2006, 11:44 PM

A mans gotta have a "hobby" ehh

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ltd · 01-07-2006, 07:42 AM

Ahhh porn.

The real reason Bill Gates invented the internet.

Tough dilemna GTFPV, if she's a good mother to her kids and a good wife then I suppose you couldn't tell her for fear of messing with those relationships. I'd say best to keep it to yourself and the people you've already told.
Good Luck keeping your minds eye from wandering when she's around.